CHAPTER 10 : THE DAY OF ASSEMBLY, DOOMSDAY

On the day of assembly (KIAMAT), all the people will be gathered on the face of this earth. From the people of Ad, Thamud, the next Pharaoh to the last people, the People of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. This is the day, God willing.

And for every nation there is a direction (qibla) that each of them leads to; therefore race to do good; because wherever you are then Allah will still bring you all (gather on the Day of Judgment to receive a reward); Indeed, Allah is Almighty over everything. (Al-Baqarah 2:148)

"O our Lord! Verily it is You who will gather all mankind, to (receive a reward on) a day when there is no doubt about it". Indeed, God does not break His promise. (A-li'Imraan 3:9)

LAST CHANCE

Therefore this is important news, you all are in the last time and the last chance to 1) Repent with nasuha repentance 2) Believe in God the One God and our books 3) And make improvements on the practice of life. Cruel example, make up for your cruelty. The looter pay back or return your loot.

Say (O Muhammad) to those disbelievers: "You will be defeated (in this world) and will be gathered into Hell, and that is the worst place prepared".

(A-li'Imraan 3:12)

Therefore, what about (their situation) when We gather them on the Day, about which there is no doubt; and (on that same day) will be completed to each one, the reward of what he has worked for, while each of them will not be wronged. (A-li'Imraan 3:25)

Allah, there is no God (who deserves to be worshiped) but Him. Indeed, He will gather you on the Day of Resurrection, (a day) about which there is no doubt. And who is more truthful than Allah? (An-Nisa' 4:87)

CALL TO NON-MUSLIM

This is a call to non-Muslims, especially Jews and Christians, to correct their distorted belief in deifying the Trinity and worshiping creatures as God. You should correct your faith that our God is Allah, there is no other God but Allah and practice the content found in Al kitab.

(Prophet Isa) Al-Masih never refused and was arrogant to be a servant for God, as is the (attitude) of angels who are always side by side (with God). And whoever refuses and is arrogant from worshiping (worshiping and enslaving himself) to Allah, and he is arrogant and arrogant, then Allah will gather them all to Him. (An-Nisa' 4:172)

THE LOST PEOPLE WHO DO NOT BELIEVE IN GOD

Ask: "Who owns everything in the heavens and the earth?" Say: "(All that) belongs to Allah. He has decided upon Himself to give mercy. Verily He will gather you together on the Day of Resurrection about which there is no doubt". People who harm themselves, then they do not believe.

(Al-An'am 6:12)

And (remember) the time when We gathered them all (on the Day of Resurrection), then We said to the polytheists: "Wait where you all are, you and the creatures you associate"; after that we broke off good relations between them. And the creatures they worship said (as a departure): "It is not us - whom you worship and obey (actually you only worship and obey your own desires)!

(Jonah 10:28)

ONLY GOD PROTECTS

On this day, there is no protector for you and no intercessor other than Allah. This is the day the son cannot help his father, we are facing the doomsday ourselves.

And warn with the Qur'an to those who fear that they will be gathered to their Lord (on the Day of Resurrection), (although) there is no protector for them and no intercessor other than God, so that they may be righteous.

(Al-An'am 6:51)

ON THAT DAY THERE IS NO USE TO WORRY

And they will still gather before God (to be reckoned on the Day of Judgment); then those who are weak (followers) to those who are proud and arrogant will say to them (who are the leaders): "Indeed we have become your followers; then can you refuse from us a little of the punishment of Allah?" They answered : "If God had shown us a safe path, we would have shown you that path. (Now) it is the same for us, whether we worry and complain or we are patient, there is no way for us to escape (from the punishment)" .

(Abraham 14:21)

NEW EARTH AND SKY

On this day the Spirit of the earth and the Spirit of the sky have changed containers. With the Spirit of the earth given to Al-Mahdi and his kingdom (from the family of Prophet Ibrahim, for the first time a human being known to the ummi, held the authority of the earth while the Spirit of heaven was given to the angels and his kingdom.

(Remember) the time of this earth's day is replaced by another, so is the sky; and the people all came out and gathered to face God, the One, the Almighty. (Abraham 14:48)

STATE OF THE UNIVERSE

And (remember) the day We dismantled and blew away the mountains and you will see (the whole) face of the earth exposed; and We gathered them (in the field of Mahsyar) until We would not leave a single one of them.

(Al-Kahfi 18:47)

On the day the earth splits (earthquake) for them to come out (from it). The act of (bringing to life and) gathering them in the Mahsyar Field is easy for Us to do. (Qaaf 50:44)

And when the wild beasts are gathered together; (At-Takwiir 81:5)

GOD FEARING PEOPLE GATHER

(Remember) the day We gathered the pious people to face (Allah) Ar-Rahman, in teams.

(Mary 19:85)

BODY AND FACE BECAME BLACK

Their clothes are made of belangkin (tar oil), and their faces (as well as their whole bodies) are covered with the licks of hell fire.

(Abraham 14:50)

And the faces (of the disbelievers) on that day will be full of dust, ('Abasa 80:40)

And for those who commit evil (polytheism and immorality), the reward for each of their evils is an evil comparable to it and will be dishonored; there is no protection for them from the (torment) of God; their faces (jet black) seemed to be covered with some parts of the dark night. They are the people of hell, they remain in it. (Jonah 10:27)

EYES BECOME BLIND AND GRAY

On that day, guilty people are gathered in gray eyes, first he is agitated because of his guilt. Second he saw and knew the truth but tried to escape.

(That is) the day the Trumpet will be blown, and We will gather on that day the wrongdoers in the gray state of their eyes. (Taha 20:102)

And those who turn away blindly. First, his eyes were completely removed, he became blind, second when he was told the truth he turned away, blinded his heart and his eyes from the truth.

And whoever turns away from My remembrance and guidance, then indeed for him is a narrow life, and We will gather him on the Day of Resurrection in a state of blindness.

(Taha 20:124)

THE FIRST TRUMPET BLOW, THE DAY OF THE RESURRECTION

The Ummah of Prophet Muhammad SAW was the last Ummah, and they were gathered together with the previous Ummah to receive reckoning. Therefore know, YOU ALL ARE LIVING ON THE DAY OF RESURRECTION. The first trumpet has been blown, you are born again to receive a response.

He is the one who created you from the ground, then He determines your death (your death) and another certain death from His side (that is the time that has been set for you to be resurrected on the Day of Resurrection); in the meantime, you are still in doubt (about the Day of Retribution).

(Al-An'am 6:2)

God said again: "On that earth you live and there you die, and from it you will be removed (raised alive again on the Day of Resurrection)".

(Al-A'raaf 7:25)

EVERY CREATURE WILL BE GATHERED

And there is not a single creature but is gathered to Our judgment, all brought to present (to receive recompense).

(Yaa Siin 36:32)

WARNINGS AND WARNINGS

You are very surprised by earthquakes everywhere, volcanic eruptions, disasters and infectious diseases, all of which are retribution punishments for people's disbelief.

Therefore, this is the LAST CHANCE for you to repent, believe in the Oneness of God, worship without associating Him and understand the Quran. You say you believe in the Quran, but you don't know what is in the Quran, that is not faith. Woe to anyone who, when asked what is in the Quran, does not know it. This person cannot be safe.

They ask you about the Day of Judgment: "When will it come?" Say: "Surely the knowledge of it is only with my Lord, there is no one who can explain its coming in time except Him. (The chaos) of the Day of Judgment is very heavy (frightening the creatures that are) in the heavens and on the earth; it does not come to you except suddenly". They ask you as if you already know. Say: "Indeed the knowledge of the Day of Judgment is with Allah, but most people do not know".

(Al-A'raaf 7:187)

What (what those disbelievers are waiting for?) they are not waiting for but the arrival of the angels (who take away their lives), or the arrival (of punishment) of your Lord, or the arrival of some of the signs of your Lord (which will be the address of the Day of Resurrection). On the day some of the signs of your Lord come, the faith of a person who did not believe before that, or who did not try to do good about his faith, will be of no use. Say: "You wait (for what you deserve), and we are actually waiting (for what God has promised us)".

(Al-An'am 6:158)

Therefore, before the Doomsday comes to pick up that is Death (death) the second time or signs of doom try to improve faith, worship, after that there is no way back. This is the last chance. Take this as a warning. God's punishment is painful, overwhelming and painful, while hell is in turmoil.

OPPORTUNITY TO ENTER HEAVEN

That is, by asking God for forgiveness, believing in God Almighty God, our god and your god, there is no god but Him. And return to doing righteous deeds and improving deeds.

(Remember) when Allah gathered you on the day of assembly (to receive recompense), - that is the day each of you will see his loss. And (remember), whoever believes in God and does righteous deeds, God will forgive his sins and enter him into Paradise under which several rivers flow, they will remain in it forever; that is a great victory. (At-Taghaabun 64:9)

"O you who believe, repent to Allah with pure repentance.."(QS At-Tahrim: 8)

Indeed, Allah loves those who repent and loves those who purify themselves. – (QS Al-Baqarah: 222)

A sin that makes you sad and regretful is more loved by God than a good deed that makes you proud. - Ali bin Abi Talib

Except for those who repent and do good deeds. Then their evil will be replaced by God with goodness (in the afterlife). – (QS Al-Furqan: 70)

Happiness is achieved through three things: 1) Patience when tested, 2) Be grateful when receiving favors, and 3) repent for sins-sin. – Ibn al-Qayyim

 

CHAPTER 9 : CODE OF CONDUCTS

Manners/ Conducts comes from the Arabic word ادب which means good behavior and deeds, decency, morality, politeness, decency, and humanity. Ethics comes from the word أَخْلاَقٌ which is the plural of the word خُلُقٌ meaning habit, conduct, behavior, and behavior, custom, and even it also means religion itself.

MANNERS TO GOD

Adab towards God is to believe in God without associating Him. Understanding the name, nature and actions of God without needing to know His Essence; do not equate Him with creatures; practicing his religion in the right way as taught by his Messenger; leave all prohibitions and always seek His guidance and forgiveness. You should always be grateful, satisfied, kind and completely surrender to God.

MANNERS TO THE QURAN

Should touch in a pure state of hands and body parts, afdal berwuduk. Covering the private parts. Reading diligently. Begin by asking for protection from the devil and bismillahirrahmanirahim. You can add a heart-enlightening prayer. Understand the meaning. Allow all the sentences. Take lessons and knowledge from him and put them into practice. When you hear people reading the Quran, be quiet. Do not point your feet towards the Quran. And after reading put it in a high place.

MANNERS TO THE APOSTLE

Adab towards the Prophet Muhammad SAW is to truly understand his metaphysical position and his high moral status, love him more than ourselves, follow the sunnah and honor the members of the Prophet SAW's family properly, in addition to friends and Islamic scholars.

MANNERS TO LEADERS

Etiquette towards leaders is to have a good view of them and their families, support good policies and advise sincerely, do not support in matters contrary to religion, injustice and what is against the law.

MANNERS TO THE COUNTRY

Etiquette towards the country is to properly understand history, defend its integrity and sovereignty and in the larger interest not to oppress or threaten others. Loving the country and ready to defend and defend the country with the leaders.

DRESS MANNERS

Wear simple clothes and cover the entire aurat. Without fragrances or jewelry that attracts attention for women.

PRAYER MANNERS

Working Sincerely, Perfecting Wudu. Dress Clean and cover your private parts. Immediately perform the prayer after the call to prayer. Congregational prayer in the mosque is better. Close the row. Kusyu' in prayer. Perfecting the reading and the pillars of prayer. Wirid and pray after prayer.

FASTING MANNERS

According to Sheikh Habib Abdullah bin Alwi al-Haddad,

"A person who fasts has manners whose fasting is not perfect except with the presence of those manners. The most important of them is to guard his tongue from lying and swearing and talking about things that are not necessary for him. He guards his eyes and ears from listening and looking at anything which is not halal for him as well as something that is considered excessive.

TOILET MANNERS

Read a prayer before going to the toilet.

From Anas bin Malik, he said,

"The Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, when he entered the toilet, he said: Allahumma inni a'udzu bika minal khubutsi wal khobaits (O Allah, I seek refuge in You from male and female devils)

EATING ETIQUETTE

We are forbidden to criticize food. If we really don't like the food, then we should leave it instead of eating it but criticizing it.

From Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu anhu:

"The Messenger of Allah sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam never criticized food, when he sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam had an appetite, (liked the food that had been served) he ate it, while if he did not like it (had no appetite), then he left it."

When one of you wants to eat, then say: 'Bismillaah', and if he forgets to say Bismillaah at the beginning of eating, then he should say: 'Bismillaah awwaalahu wa aakhirahu' (by mentioning the Name of Allah at the beginning and at the end)." (Sahih: Narrated by Abu Dawud (no. 3767), Ahmad (VI/143)

MUZAKARAH ETIQUETTE

Discussion centered on the truth, without doubt. Delivered in a polite, mannered and civilized manner, making it easier to be accepted by the public. Demanding every muzakarah member to be humble and away from all arrogance and showing off. An attitude of openness to differences of opinion, not being fanatical or fanatical about one's own views feels the most true. be open to the possibility that something we believe is not true, respect each other and love each other. And Adil should not be the only dominant party to speak up, give opportunities and encourage the weak, remain silent to express their views

SLEEP MANNERS

First, do not sleep before Isha prayer. We should do Isha prayer first before going to sleep and not chat after Isha.

From Abu Barzah Radhiyallahu anhu:.

"That the Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, hated sleeping the night before (Isha' prayer) and talking (unhelpful) after it."

(HR. Al-Bukhari no. 568 and Muslim no. 647 (235

Second, take ablution before going to bed. People who perform ablution before going to sleep will get protection from angels in their sleep.

"When you want to go to bed (sleep), then perform ablution first as you perform ablution to pray."

[HR. Al-Bukhari no. 247 and Muslim no. 2710]

Third, read a prayer before going to bed. As for some of the prayers recited are the verses of the Quran as taught by the Prophet. From 'Aishah, she, may God be pleased with her, said,

"The Prophet sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he was in bed every night, he put his palms together and then both palms were blown and recited 'Qul huwallahu ahad' (Surat Al Ikhlash), 'Qul a'udzu birobbil falaq' (Surat Al Ikhlash)Al-Falaq) and 'Qul a'udzu birobbin naas' (the letter of An Naas). Then he rubbed the palms of his hands on the parts of the body that could be reached, starting from the head, face, and front of the body. He did that three times."

(HR. Bukhari no. 5017).

PILGRIMAGE / VISIT ETIQUETTE

Say hello. A friendly handshake and a smile. Come with good intentions to connect or come to please people. If you get an invitation, fulfill the invitation. Messenger, "Whoever is invited, come!"

(HR. Abu Dawud and Ahmad)

Do not enter before permission. Even if the house is our closest relative. We should always ask for permission before entering someone's house. And pay attention to the time limit, if it takes too long we are worried about burdening the host.

"O you who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet unless you are allowed to eat without waiting for the time to cook the food! However, if you are invited, come in! And when you finish eating, you go out without prolonging the conversation! Surely such a thing will disturb the Prophet. Then, the Prophet was ashamed of you to tell you to leave. And God is not ashamed to explain the truth." (Qs. Al Azab: 53)

MANNERS OF DEMANDING KNOWLEDGE

Intend that all the knowledge you will learn is only for the sake of Allah. When seeking knowledge, we should earnestly avoid feeling lazy and easily tired, by using all the time and space to gain knowledge and review. Stay away from careless things.

There are many knowledgeable people who actually become arrogant, they should remain humble people. You should respect teachers, because they are people who sacrifice themselves to educate. Choose friends who bring blessings. Do not argue and argue with teachers or friends, but ask questions to increase understanding.

Be silent when the teacher or ustadz explains and give full attention. Memorize the knowledge so that it is easier to remember. Practicing the knowledge he learned. After practicing and finding the benefits and benefits, then spread the goodness of the knowledge, so that it benefits others.

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"A mother's heart is very deep and at the bottom of her deepest heart, you will always findsorry door.” - Honoré de Balzac

"Maybe mom calls more often to ask how I'm doing every day, but do I know that it's actually dad who reminds mom to call me?" -Maman Suherman

"You know, a father might leave. However, every Mother will continue to accompany." - Asma Nadia

"For me, a mother is everything, the path of sustenance is opened by our devotion to our parents, what makes a mother's heart happy is not wealth, but the morals of a noble child." - Susi Pudjiastuti

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MANNERS TO BOTH PARENTS

The manners of a child to their parents

1-   He should listen and obey his parents in non-religious matters.

2-   He should not walk in front of his parents, if he has to bow down.

3-   Let him not raise his voice higher than the two

4-   He should be humble and humble to both of them.

5-   Don't argue and sulk in front of both of them.

6-   Let him respond to the call of both and fulfill their requests in good ways. Obey all orders

CONVERSATION ETIQUETTE

Speak only good things. Said the truth. Not reproaching his brother. Be a good listener and don't interrupt your brother's words "When you are sitting talking to others, you should listen more than you speak. Learn to be a good listener as you learn to be a good speaker. Do not interrupt the conversation of others." (Hasan Al Basri Al-Muntaqa p. 72). No Arguing. The Prophet's words: I guarantee a palace around heaven for anyone who abandons debate even if he is in the right. And in the middle of heaven for a person who abandons lies even in joking and in the highest part of heaven for those whose morals are praiseworthy." (HR. Abu Dawud, in his sunan, no 4167

PRAYING MANNERS

-      Believe in God's promise that the prayer is answered. Just slow or fast

-      Choose the best time to pray.

-      Really feel the need of God.

-      Facing the Qibla.

-      Pray in a holy state. Better if ablution

-      Raise your hands while praying.

-      Precede with repentance and forgiveness, like the prayer of Prophet Yunus 'alaihis salam who acknowledged his injustice first: LAA ILAAHA ILLAA ANTA SUBHAANAKA INNII KUNTU MINAZH ZHAALIMIIN (Meaning: There is no deity worthy of worship except You, Most Holy You, indeed I am one of the wrongdoers ).

-      Ask with great hope and fear, humbly and slowly. And don't be arrogant and go overboard.

-      Tawassul with Asma Allah.

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"Prayer gives strength to the weak, makes the unbelieving to believe and gives courage to the fearful." -Aristotle

"I really believe in the power of prayer." "Prayer is man's greatest strength!" -W. Clement Stone

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PROOFS OF PRAYER IN THE QURAN AND HADITH

Pray to Me and I will grant your prayer. Indeed, those who are arrogant and neglect to worship and pray to Me, will enter Jahannam in a state of humiliation.

(Ghafir: 60)

And when My servants ask you about Me then (tell them): Verily I (Allah) am always near (to them); I grant the request of the person who prays when he prays to Me. So let them respond to my call (by obeying my command) and let them believe in me so that they become good and right.

(Al Baqarah 186)

Or who accepts the prayer of the afflicted when he prays to Him and who removes hardship, and makes you successors (of the peoples who have passed) to inhabit and rule the earth? Are there any other gods with Allah? Very few of you remember (God's favor).

(No. 62)

(Remember) when you asked your Lord for help, then He granted your request (with His words): Verily I will help you with a thousand (army) of angels who come in succession.

(Al Anfal 9)

And He accepts the supplications of those who believe and do righteous deeds and He increases them from His bounties (in addition to what they ask for) and (on the contrary) those who disbelieve, a severe punishment is prepared for them.

(Ash Shura 26)

Oh my God, give me religious knowledge and connect me with righteous people;

(Asy Shuaraa 83)

Only You do we worship, and only You do we ask for help.

(Surah Al-Fatihah: 5)

Pray to your Lord humbly and (with a voice) slowly. Indeed, Allah does not like those who transgress the limits.

(Al-A'raaf 7:55)

And do not do mischief on earth after God has prepared everything that brings good to it, and pray to Him with a feeling of worry (in case it is not accepted) and also with a feeling of too much hope (so that it will be accepted). Indeed, God's mercy is close to those who improve their deeds.

(Al-A'raaf 7:56)

And Allah has good (glorious) names, so call (and pray) to Him by mentioning those names, and banish those who turn away from the truth while using His names. They will get feedback on what they have done.

(Al-A'raaf 7:180)

And pray (O Muhammad by saying): "O my Lord, grant forgiveness and bestow mercy, and indeed You alone are the best Giver of mercy!"

(Al-Mu'minun 23:118)

From Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu 'anhu, the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihiwa sallam said, "Pray to Allah in a state of certainty that it will be answered, and know that Allah does not answer prayers from a negligent heart." (HR. Tirmidhi, no. 3479. Shaykh Al-Albani says that this hadith is hasan.)

And We oblige man to do good to both his parents; His mother conceived him with great pain and gave birth to him with great pain. While the period of pregnancy and the period of weaning is within thirty months. After he grew up to the age of perfect strength and reached the age of forty years, he prayed saying: "O my God, inspire me to be grateful for your favors that you have bestowed on me and my parents, and so that I continue to do good deeds righteous that You are satisfied; and make the qualities of goodness seep into the souls of my descendants. Indeed, I repent to you, and indeed I am from the Muslims (who submit to you)".

(Al-Ahqaaf 46:15)

CHAPTER 2 : PEACE TO ALL MESSENGERS (SELAWAT AND SALAM)

The apostles and prophets are noble messengers of God, in establishing God's religion by delivering His message. They are fighters in the path of God in order to convey the truth. Because of them we know Allah as God. Because of them we can read the books. Therefore, as grateful servants of God, let us be grateful by saying Salawat and Salam to all the Prophets and Messengers. Here is an example of greetings from the Quran: 

Verily, Allah and His angels bless (give greetings of respect and kindness) to the Prophets; O you who believe, bless him and greet him with full respect.

(Al-Ahzaab 33:56)

And (say) peace to all the Messengers. (As-Saaffaat 37:181)

CHAPTER 8 : CLEANSING THE SOUL AND MINDS

An authoritative person is a person who appears physically (externally) as well as in his soul to be a good person, his aura radiates. These are people who are clean spiritually and internally as well as externally.

Normally, most people look good on the outside, their behavior is good, their words are polite and orderly. But to find a person who is clean and good on the outside and inside is like finding a jewel in the deep ocean.

But to achieve total freedom from the mire of sin, we must free our hearts from inner sins, vices of the soul, all worries, disbelief and so on. Repentance from feelings of pride, self-pride, feeling better, bad thoughts, despising and insulting people secretly, envy, revenge and transgression of the heart mixed with sin

Ways, Educate the heart and cleanse it from inner sins

1) When you feel better. Be humble. Feeling that everyone is better than him. And if found good in him. Say "all goodness belongs to Allah".

2) Feeling pity and sympathy for the weak. If I were in his place, I wouldn't necessarily be able to face him. May God make things easier for him.

3) Allow truth. What is read and heard is true, indeed it is found in the Al-Quran.

4) Declaring Justice, that is putting things in their place.

5) Be kind. Ya Allah keep me away from criticizing and insulting my brother. When the heart ticks to criticize good people "Let me not insult those who do good".

6) Restrain anger. Shut up.

7) Be generous. Truly this is God's treasure. To God it is returned.

8) Remembering God, and worshiping Him. When you see God's greatness, say Subhanallah, Masyaallah. Praise, Remembrance and Praise to Allah

9) And become a place to build an authoritative personality by always advising yourself to be better.

10) Pray with humility and hope in God.

-      For friends, "Oh God, make the people who are with me, people who believe, pious, love each other. And make us people who forgive each other and help each other in goodness, and remind us of the Hereafter".

-      Look at people who are weak and needy, "May God provide sustenance for him".

-      See bad things "O Allah, I seek refuge in you from such things"

-      The path or whisper of the devil "Oh God, I seek refuge in you from the stoned devil".

-      When something bad happens, be patient. Ya Allah, make me a faithful, pious and pious servant.

-      Feeling the calamity that befell me as if I could not bear it any longer, "Oh God, the favors and graces that you have bestowed on me all this time are abundant, therefore make me among your grateful and patient servants. Make me a person who is sincere and content with the provisions of my Lord. And show me a way out that is easy and pleasing to You".

11) Special people, or being at a higher level or referring to an authoritative person. His heart is programmed for certain things only. Empty or Silent from all things, except His Remembrance every time to God.

If he is faced with something, then he allows his heart to speak words to advise him towards goodness or teach him knowledge.

HOW TO CLEAN THE HEART FROM THE QURAN

this is the way to educate the heart, even this way is recorded in Al Quran. When the breath is perfected, evil and good whispers are brought. Lucky is the person who chooses a good whisper and Lucky is also the person who purifies the heart.

Therefore, the example of the heart saying "You just know what level I am", fight back against that whisper, by advising yourself "I am from the earth, I was born with nothing, this is all God's, it is better to obey God, indeed God does not like arrogant people".

For the sake of man and the One who completes his events (with equipment suitable for his condition); (7) And inspires him (to know) the path that leads him to evil, and that leads him to piety; (8) Indeed, successful is the person who makes himself - who is ready clean - becoming more and more clean, (9) And truly empty is the person who makes himself - who is already clean - his cleanliness decreases and sinks (due to the impurity of immorality).

(Ash-Shams 91:10)

SILENT / DEDICATED / FOCUS SCIENCE:

Sit in front of a table or place. Prepare paper, pencil, balm or perfume, eraser or coins, as well as a stopwatch (you can use a mobile phone). Start with Bismillahirrahmanirahim.

1) SEE SOMETHING

Look at something the size of a coin placed on the table and look at it for 2 minutes. Close all other senses, do not hear, smell, think and cross or whisper.

2) FEEL SOMETHING

Feel a surface like sandpaper, with your finger for 2 minutes. Close all other senses eyes closed, do not hear, do not smell close the mind and crossing nor the whisper of the heart.

3) LISTEN TO SOUNDS

Focus on one sound only. Examples of fan noise. Ignore other sounds around. Close all other senses, close your eyes, don't smell, close your mind and cross or even whisper your heart.

4) SMELL OF SOMETHING

Focus The smell of something, for example the smell of balm. Close all other senses eyes closed, do not hear, do not smell close the mind and crossing nor the whisper of the heart.

5) SAY THE NAME OF GOD

Say the name of Allah for 2 minutes. Close all other senses eyes closed, do not hear, do not smell close the mind and crossing nor the whisper of the heart.

6) WRITING

Choose a word or a sentence. Write repeatedly for 2 minutes in a state of non-thinking, other senses closed, except the eyes to see and the fingers to move to write.

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"If silence is wise, do it! But when wisdom is trampled upon, speak up so that they remain silent."

"When you say it, it will hurt other people's hearts. It's better if you stay silent."

"It is better to smile and be quiet as if everything is fine, than to be angry and cry, and then many people have to ask why."

"Silence is better than saying hurtful words"

"Silence is golden, Silence is the sharpest weapon, Great people use silence to subdue their opponents"

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- August 24, 2022 

CHAPTER 8 : TREAT THE SOUL

A person who is clear in everything he faces is a Peaceful soul. Because, whatever comes he knows how to face and solve it. A person who is not clear or his knowledge is not comprehensive, he becomes restless because he does not know what will happen after this?

And how will you be patient about things that you do not know comprehensively?

(Al-Kahfi 18:68)

A peaceful person, He has been clear about his future direction from the beginning, clear about the purpose of his life in the world, clear about the daily routine he lives and the possibilities that will be faced and how to solve those things.

Therefore demanding that he seek knowledge, deepen his direction. In addition, every believer will be tested, every human being is not free from problems. Therefore, this life demands patience, the importance of gratitude and trust, as well as contentment with the provisions of destiny, God willing, those who completely surrender to God will be at peace.

An example of a person who knows he lives in this world, to strive for the achievement of the afterlife that is pleased and accepted by his God. He knows this world is a testing place, so he tries to be patient.

People who know, time is precious. He does not live to remember yesterday that he had begged forgiveness from his Lord at night so that the flaws of yesterday would be forgiven. He does not live for the uncertain tomorrow. He lives in the present, what good can he do at this time, what worship is pleasing to God, has his responsibility today to work and family been paid off?

PEACE

The best peace is, the peace that comes from God who leads the human heart. By remembering Allah we can be calm. Because any problem cannot be solved by God. And on God's side there are angels who are His soldiers. As good as calm, is the feeling of calm that God sent down. Pray and chant. Here is a proof of peace.

And Allah did not make that (angel's help) except as good news and so that your hearts will be at peace with it. And that victory is only from God's side. Indeed, Allah is Almighty, and Wise.

(Al-Anfaal 8:10)

Then God sent down a peaceful spirit to His Messenger and to the believers, and God sent down an army that you did not see, and He tormented the disbelievers (with a defeat that brought destruction); and such is the reward for the disbelievers.

(At-Taubah 9:26)

"(That is) those who believe and calm their hearts with zikrullah". Know with that "zikrullah", the human heart is calm.

(Ar-Ra'd 13:28)

There is no hardship (or calamity) that befalls (someone) except by God's permission; and whoever believes in God, God will guide his heart (to accept what has happened calmly and patiently); and (remember), Allah is All-Knowing of everything.

(At-Taghaabun 64:11)

He is the one who sent down the spirit of peace and tranquility into the hearts of the believers (when they were inflamed against the evil of the enemy) so that they would increase their faith and confidence along with their existing faith and conviction; in the matter of God controlling the armies of heaven and earth (to help them); and Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.

(Al-Fat-h 48:4)

Allah has sent down the best words, which are the Holy Book of the Qur'an, whose content is the same, one with the other, which is repeated (the explanation, in various ways); which (because of hearing it or reading it) the skin of the bodies of those who fear their Lord becomes horror; then their skin becomes soft and calm and their hearts are calm and accept the teachings and grace of God. The Holy Book is God's guidance; Allah gives guidance with the Al-Quran to whom He wills; and (remember) whoever Allah leads astray (because of his wrong choice), then there is no one who can guide him.

(Az-Zumar 39:23)

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"The more calm a person is, the greater his success. Peace of mind is the secret weapon of winning every battle."

"Peace of heart starts from a good preconceptions."

"Clarity brings peace." -Teodomila

"Having God's love is eternal peace. Because God will not let you go and will always be with you until your feet are strong and your soul is calm"

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CHAPTER 8 : REPENT EVERY FAJR, EVERYDAY A NEW SHEET

Every human being makes mistakes. But know that you have a Most Forgiving God. Therefore, REPENT earnestly, and ask Him for forgiveness. With the intention of not repeating the mistakes of past sins. Prayers of Repentance and Repentance every day, especially after prayer time.

And let's not live confused remembering yesterday. Because life remembers the sadness of past mistakes and confusion will only make today not step anywhere. While time ticks forward without waiting. It is better to use the available time to worship and do good.

In Islam there is a teaching, ask for forgiveness before dawn, may all the mistakes of yesterday be forgiven and start today with a new white sheet. You just FOCUS on the accomplishments of the day.

What do you want to do today?

·        Be better than yesterday

·        Worship routine. What to do. List

·        Prayer 5 times at the beginning of time and wirid after prayer

·        Dhuha Tahajud

·        Zikr in the morning and evening, part of the night and free time.

·        Reading Al Quran Morning one surah, Night one surah.

·        Have a Daily Life Routine Schedule.

Work achievements. What activity? Specify

·        Your work activities. Maintain good relations with employees. Improve work results. Meet and greet guests, customers with more attention. If you are a housewife, clean the bedroom, prepare breakfast, clean the house, sweep the garbage. Clean up the site. Watering plants. Feeding pets. Wash the dishes. Doing laundry.

Devoted to family. Specify

·        Make a drink for a couple who just got back from work. Greet the children and ask about their school day. Spend time going to the mosque with the children at maghrib and isha. Play together in the evening. Help them do their school work.

Hobbies and Interests. When and what to do?

·        Tree planting. Decorate the page. Read a book. Make creative DIY ideas. Something beneficial and relieves stress, cheerful and energetic.

Self-development, forming an excellent personality. Specify.

·        Watch excellent motivational videos. Listen to religious lectures. Reading scientific books, motivation, knowledge. Deepen knowledge in expertise by attending courses.

Appreciate your life. Try to get closer to God. People who are close to God, find peace in the soul. Think positive and keep believing that you can do better today than yesterday and Trust and surrender to God. Redha and Patience accompanied by Gratitude.

CHAPTER 8 : GOD'S HELP

Have we met the conditions to be a servant who seeks God's help? "(That is) those who, if We strengthen their position on the face of the earth, they will establish prayer, pay zakat, enjoin good deeds and forbid evil deeds, and to Allah return all affairs." (Al Hajj 22: 41).

PROOF OF GOD'S HELP

And ask for help (to God) through patience and prayer; and indeed the prayer is very heavy except for those who are devoted;

(Al-Baqarah 2:45)

Don't you know that Allah is the One who rules over all the heavens and the earth? And there is no one for you besides Allah who can protect and who can give help.

(Al-Baqarah 2:107)

O you who believe! Ask for help by being patient and by (doing) prayer; because indeed Allah is with (helps) those who are patient

(Al-Baqarah 2:153)

And if they intend to deceive you, then verily Allah is sufficient (to protect and provide protection) for you. He is the one who strengthens you with His help and with the (support) of the believers.

(Al-Anfaal 8:62)

And God did not make the help of the army of angels except to give you good news, and so that you may be at peace with that help. And (remember that) the help that brings victory is only from Allah, the Mighty, the Wise.

(A-li'Imran 3:126)

And remember when you were few in number and oppressed on earth, you were afraid that people would catch you and run away, then God gave you a place to live and strengthened you with His help, and He blessed you with good sustenance, so that you would be grateful.

(Al-Anfaal 8:26)

And any blessing you have is from God; then, when you are afflicted with hardship, it is to Him that you cry out for help.

(Al-Nahl 16:53)

And be patient (O Muhammad against the actions and antics of the disbelieving group); and there is no success in your patience except by (asking for help from) God; and don't be saddened by their stubbornness, and don't be saddened by their deceit.

(Al-Nahl 16:127)

At such a time, the power to give help is only certain for God, the real God; He is the best giver of rewards, and the best giver of a happy end (to His obedient servants).

(Al-Kahfi 18:44)

(God's promised help still applies) because God has the power to replace a situation as His power puts night in day and day in night (alternating); and (remember) verily Allah is All-Hearing and All-Seeing.

(Al-Hajj 22:61)

And those who strive earnestly to fulfill the will of Our religion, indeed We will guide them to Our paths (which make them happy and contented); and indeed (help and help) Allah is with those who try to improve their deeds.

(Al-'Ankabuut 29:69)

Humans never get tired of begging for goodness. And if he is afflicted with hardship then he becomes a person who despairs, and the effect of his hopelessness (from the grace of God's help) is very evident.

(Fussilat 41:49)

And for that reason, God gives you help (to achieve success) with full and reliable help (which has no comparison).

(Al-Fat-h 48:3)

And there is another boon that you love, which is help from God and a quick victory (the time of its occurrence). And convey the glad tidings to the believers.

(As-Saff 61:13)

When Allah's help and victory come (when you, O Muhammad, conquer the land of Makkah),

(An-Nasr 110:1)

CHAPTER 7 : TAWAKAL

Tawakal (Arabic:tokkul‎) or tawakkul means to delegate or submit. In the Islamic religion, tawakal means surrendering oneself completely to God in facing a job, or waiting for the consequences of a situation.

As a summary of the definition of tawakkal as follows, "Tawakal is surrendering oneself and being steadfast with good patience to Allah swt when faced with a job, test, difficulty, tyranny accompanied by a calm and peaceful soul. And not rebelling.

Why do we need to have complete faith in God? This is because, God holds the crown of every creature, God is very close and understands the difficulties, abilities and requests of his creatures. He is the Creator who created everything. All the power of heaven and earth is in His hands. Therefore why do we not cling to Him.

When we falter, remember a time in the past when we faced difficulties. The situation is difficult, no one or anything can help. Suddenly God sent His help. Therefore, for what reason now do not trust? Go back to God, the God who created you and let's not give up, while we still have God to pray to.

The Tawakkal of the general public and the Tawakkal of the (special) believers are different and His grace is also different. For example, the public believes that toothache medicine can relieve pain (only temporarily, such is the grace of the world). A (special) believer who has gone through some severe trials that caused him to rely only on God, he believes that God with His power can remove the pain and the blessing of the disappearance of the pain is better.

Tawakkal does not prevent believers from trying. A believer, he does something on the basis of sincerity, there is no other reason. Example If you want to be good at learning and trust. Some people misunderstand, if God wants me to be smart, then God is the one who made me smart. That is not tawakkal, it can be counted as laziness to try, and is just looking for an excuse.

Indeed, the devil has no power over those who believe and put their trust in God, because Believers submit themselves, are pleased with God, and have determined that God is their protector and helper, and they are not easily disappointed because they have a good opinion of their Lord.

Say (O Muhammad): "Nothing will ever befall us except what God has decreed for us. He is the Protector who saves us, and (with that belief) then in God should the believers put their trust." .

(At-Taubah 9:51)

CHAPTER 7 : PIETY AND HIGH DIGNITY

Among the highest ranks, is the rank of pious people. People of faith People who do righteous deeds, People who do good deeds are called to piety.

WHAT IS FEAR?

TAKWA is a practice or way of life that cleanses, purifies people from the abyss of sin, from evil. In simpler words, submit to all His orders, leave all His prohibitions and do not mix sins and rewards.

Attitude of pious people:

1) Feeling that God is always watching over him, that's why he doesn't pretend to be righteous in front of believers, and when in a hidden state he commits immorality or commits evil.

2) People who are straight, don't use tricks or tricks.

Example: the debt is RM 10, paid RM 10 not "Sir I pay RM 9, the RM 1 is halal". Example: clothing that covers the aurat is good, but clothing that is religious is better. Wearing a robe is good, but the color is bright, flowery, laced with lace so that it attracts and captivates the hearts of those who see it. This dress does not reach the degree of piety.

3) People who live their lives with the phrase, "I Obey and I Obey", do not rebel, do not ask why the law is like this and like this.

4) People who behave justly. Put everything in its place. Fairness is close to piety.

5) People who are able to hold their anger and forgive.

6) People who are patient and trust in God. Life is not always good, for example in war, in a state of injury and persecution and he is patient and trusts in God.

7) People who believe in the pillars of faith, give charity to their loved ones, perform prayers, pay zakat and fulfill promises.

SUMMARY

TAKWA is cleaning oneself, heart, practice, worship from all sins, doubts, insincerity, injustice and acting straight. And perform worship well. God prepares the Hereafter with a great and good reward for the pious. And the good end is only for the pious.

CHAPTER 7 : PATIENCE

Patience is refraining from anger over something bad that happens. Such as pain, calamity, disturbances, difficulties, being oppressed and so on. Patient attitude, they are not in a hurry, calm and not pushy. The attitude of patient people is able to restrain the heart from releasing (sadness, anger) and try to calm down.

There are 3 levels. At first, holding back anger, sadness, confusion over what happened. In the middle, he felt stronger, less burdened and more satisfied. In the end, he was satisfied and surrendered to God, no longer struggling, and found ways to resolve or make peace. Tests come to make us more mature.

Indeed, PATIENCE is among the most powerful helpers of believers. So that if there are 100 patient people they will be able to defeat 200 infidel enemies. Thalut's chosen army had defeated Jalut, consisting of patient people, refraining from drinking water from the river, and their number was very small, but they were able to win.

A characteristic of Sabar people, when misfortune strikes them, they say Innalillahiwainnailaihirojiun. And a patient person is categorized as a person who does good deeds and a leader who can be trusted in giving guidance (because his decisions and actions are not rushed)

The benefits obtained by those who are patient:

1) Obtaining forgiveness 2) Obtaining a great reward and being perfected with unlimited reward 3) Bestowed with good qualities 4) They are people whom God loves 5) Among the people of heaven, are those who are patient.

HOW TO FACE A BAD SITUATION?

Therefore we need to develop a personality, what kind of attitude when faced with a bad situation:

1) We should be calm, only a peaceful, contented, sincere soul can achieve real peace.

2) Thinking positively, that is, everything that happens has already been written. Therefore Redha with destiny is the best path.

3) He should be silent, from complaining and telling people about the fate that befell him. This is because, this attitude only attracts more darkness.

4) He should remember that all this time, God's blessings are abundant on him, be grateful. And the situation is still good. Just given a little test. Maybe all this time we have forgotten to be grateful to those who give us sustenance. Be thankful

5) Be patient with good patience. Patience is part of faith. Maybe by being patient, we can draw closer to God.

6) Pray to God humbly asking for forgiveness and guidance, goodness and help from Him.

7) Find the cause of the problem, and find the remedy. Determine the direction and take the necessary action, the way out.

8) Relying and surrendering completely to God.

CHAPTER 7 : HUMILITY

Usually people like to take care of their appearance, soft spoken, good behavior, not arrogant so we are attracted to them. Alhamdulillah it is a good example of morality. But, some of it is just wood leaning, strong on the outside, rotting inside waiting to collapse. Why the exterior and interior are not the same.

Our life, internal like Thoughts in the brain and Whispers in the heart if not managed can damage the soul and personality, like wild animals, or stealth, bright day becomes a person when dark night becomes a ghost. Yes, because I feel that Thoughts and Whispers are secrets, no one knows, tightly closed within myself. The fact is that God is all listening and the bad things that are thought and whispered form a person, like pus that eats from the inside.

Therefore, being humble externally can be practiced, easily. Humans are all actors. The mask is easy to change. But to make it the blood of life, both internally and externally. Just as we try to take care of our speech and behavior, we also need to take care of the whispers of our hearts and thoughts in our minds. Cleanse yourself from inner sins.

When you hear whispers of self-aggrandizement mixed with arrogance or any ugly attitude from the inside. So fight the thought and whisper it again with humility. Who are we to feel noble or to feel that I am better? Always make everyone feel better.

I am nobody. I was born not knowing anything. And if not for the sacrifice of our parents who are willing to raise us and their prayers so that we become successful people. We are not anyone. What we have, is only a loan from God. Whether or not the person we judge quietly in the heart has better morals, higher knowledge and a better position in the eyes of God.

Then what makes us feel high. The fact is that we are just below, the same as the ground. What allows us to stand, let alone be able to walk, run strongly, thanks to the sacrifices of those around us.

Don't feel good, because above the good people there are better people. And every goodness belongs to God. The more we sincerely accept, the fact is that we are strengthened by God, the quality of life increases. My heart is getting humbler, God willing.

No matter who we talk to. Or let people popularize about us in public. Because it can cause a sense of self-pride, between opening the door to arrogance. Only express who we are to the situation where it is necessary. Example of filling out a job application form. Or we advise people in our field of expertise.

Dress modestly, because people like to look good, and their looks can make you feel proud. Hiding in society, seen as most people, unknown to people in order to preserve religion. Be a man who is not lifted up by praise, does not fall to be despised, only the wrath of God is feared.

CHAPTER 7 : HOLD ANGER

People who are easily angered can cause disasters that lead to regrets later on. Therefore we should learn how to control anger.

When you feel angry, back off, shut up and try to calm down. Think, if other people are angry what he does. We have to get out of the problem box (put yourself as an observer, not an emotional person). If you can't, turn your attention to other things, leave arguments, drink water first and so on. Because decisions or actions made in a state of anger are often out of sanity.

DALIL HOLDS ANGER

·        Resisting anger is a good deed.

And hasten to (do good deeds to get) forgiveness from your Lord, and (get) Paradise whose area is as wide as all the heavens and the earth, which is prepared for the pious; (133) They are those who donate their wealth in good times and bad times, and those who restrain their anger, and those who forgive people's mistakes. And (remember), God loves those who do good things; 

(A-li'Imran 3:134)

·        Resisting anger, a way to purify yourself

And (mention the event of) Zun-Nun, when he went away (leaving his people) in a state of anger, which caused him to think that We would not afflict him with hardship or trial; (after what happened to him) then he called out in the darkness saying: "Verily there is no God (who can help) but You (O Allah)! Glory be to You (instead of doing wrong, help me)! Verily I am one of those who persecute themselves".

(Al-Anbiya' 21:87)

·        Anger often ends in regret. Resisting anger is better.

And (remember) about the day when the wrongdoers bit both his hands (angry at himself) saying: "Would it be better if I (in the previous world) took the right path with the Messenger?

(Al-Furqaan 25:27)

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"Anger is your enemy. Conquer it, and don't let it defeat you." - Ali bin Abi Talib.

"A moment's patience when angry will save you from a thousand regrets." - Ali bin Abi Talib.

"Hold your words when you are angry because sometimes words spoken in anger leave scars that can never be healed."

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CHAPTER 7 : GRATEFUL

Gratitude is a true feeling of gratitude from the heart for a favor bestowed, given by God Almighty. It is a manifestation of humility and an exercise in staying away from arrogance.

Gratitude is also not only about blessings, but it also includes gratitude for being freed from calamities, calamities and disasters. There are 3 rewards, rewards in this world, rewards in the hereafter and rewards for those who are grateful. Therefore, the position of grateful people is high.

HOW TO EXPRESS THANKSGIVING

1. Thankful Heart

Acknowledgment from the heart for all the favors and blessings of God and expressing gratitude can be seen with a humble attitude and a good attitude.

2. Verbal Gratitude

Giving thanks verbally, mentioning the favors that God has bestowed upon us with a feeling of humility, gratitude and inviting people to also be thankful for God's favors.

3. Gratitude Actions

Expressing gratitude with actions. Such as giving alms, spending wealth, using sustenance and favors that God has given for the religion of God, jihad fisabilillah. Give a good loan to God.

HOW TO AVOID A SENSE OF GRATITUDE

Sometimes we don't know why we need to be thankful. That is the existence of the Atheist's understanding, which cannot see the greatness of God. So let's talk about the causes that arouse gratitude.

1.    1. Contemplating God's Greatness

In the Al-Qur'an, God often stirs the hearts of people, that it turns out that there are many blessings that He bestows.

A) Look for clear, cold fresh water that quenches thirst. If God makes it salty. How?

B) Observe Sight, Hearing, and Conscience. How it was formed into a very perfect system. Therefore why not have faith and be grateful.

C) God took us out of your mother's womb in a weak and ignorant state, and if God allows, there will be no one to feed you, move you and carry you. Therefore why not be grateful.

D) Look at the food, fruits, and livestock we eat. Who created it? We should be grateful. And give some to the poor

2. Feeling Qana'ah

The feeling of always feeling enough for the blessings that God has given. This will make us always grateful to Allah SWT. The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said:

"Be a righteous person, then you will be the most devoted servant. Be a qana'ah person, then you will be the most grateful servant." (HR. Ibn Majah no. 3417, authenticated by Al Albani in Sahih Ibn Majah).

3. Through worship, thanksgiving and remembrance

One of the ways to express gratitude is by prostrating. Zikr is one form of gratitude to Allah SWT. There are some specific dhikr taught by the Prophet specifically to express our gratitude to Allah SWT.

REPLY OF THANKS

1)   God will increase his blessings

2)   Gratitude and Patience are like friends. When we are tested and remember God's blessings all this time, it makes us grateful and we want to be more patient over the test.

3)   Protecting from painful punishments. Indeed, Lut's family was saved by God from the wind that carried stones because they were among the grateful people.

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"Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough." —Oprah Winfrey

"When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears." —Anthony Robbins

"A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue, but the parent of all the other virtues."-Cicero -2022)

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CHAPTER 6 : WHEN TO TALK

First think and say something if you are able to make something improve based on knowledge and correct arguments. Not a guess or a guess. If you don't make things improve. Silence is better. If you don't have knowledge, just shut up. Worry when expressing opinions based on guesses and guesses, not clear arguments, causing others to go astray. We have to be responsible.

The words of the Messenger of Allah "I guarantee with a palace on the edge of heaven for those who abandon debate even if it is true, I guarantee with a palace in the middle of heaven for those who abandon lies even if they are joking, and I guarantee with a highest palace for people who improve their morals" [HR Abu Dawud, authenticated by albani]

(Regrets) And we used to always take part in talking about wrong things, together with the people who talk about them; (Al-Muddathir: 45)

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"Never judge someone from other people's opinions. Every time I judge another person, I reveal an unhealed part of myself. It's easy to judge other people's mistakes, it's hard to recognize our own mistakes."

"For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." - August 24, 2022 

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CHAPTER 6 : JUDGING ATTITUDE

Don't judge by just looking at the surface. We cannot judge someone by only knowing the cover. For example, we say this to Pharaoh, Haman, Qarun very loudly, very loudly. Try to put yourself in their place with their great power, wealth, army. Our legs are not necessarily strong, right? Except those whose faith is strengthened by God.

Therefore we make these people a lesson. For personal improvement. Why do we have to be busy saying bad things about this and that. Pharaoh is dead in the grave. The words had no effect on him. But the loud and harsh bad words, only turned to his master. Only bad people say bad words.

CHAPTER 6 : HELPING EACH OTHERS

The attitude of helping each other in Islam is highly encouraged, because it is impossible for humans to live alone without help around them. Therefore we should be light-handed.

From Abu Hurairah RA, the Prophet SAW said:

"Whoever relieves a believer of a hardship, surely Allah will relieve him of a hardship on the Day of Resurrection. Whoever makes other people's affairs easy, surely Allah will make it easy in this world and in the hereafter. Whoever covers the shame of a Muslim, surely Allah will cover his shame in this world and in the hereafter. God always helps His servant as long as His servant likes to help his brother. Whoever takes a path in search of knowledge, surely Allah will make it easy for him the path to heaven. When a people gather in one of the mosques to read the Qur'an in turn and learn it, they will surely be covered with sakinah (peace), covered with mercy, and covered by angels, and God will mention their names in front of other creatures on the side His. Whoever is slow in practice,

(Hadith of Muslim History)

"....And help each other in (doing) virtue and piety, and do not help each other in committing sins and transgressions. And fear Allah, verily Allah is severe in punishment".

[Al Ma'idah: 2]

"Allah always helps a servant as long as the servant helps his brother." (HR. Muslim no. 2699)

REFUSING TO HELP IN THE NAME OF GOD ?

Sometimes God sends his creatures who are in trouble to ask for help whether it is in the form of support, material, opinion and so on. But the good answer that is always given is "God is there, don't worry, God will help you, put your trust in God".

True refusal, the person who begs with good words is a kindness. But if we can lend a helping hand that would be better.

Rejecting alms-seekers) with kind words and forgiving (their mistakes) is better than almsgiving (giving) accompanied by (deeds or words that) hurt the heart. And (remember), God is Rich, yet Forgiving.

(Al-Baqarah 2:263)

The attitude of refusing to offer help when we are able to help people in distress, is mentioned by God in His word.

And when it was said to them: "Give some of the sustenance that God has bestowed upon you", the disbelievers said to the believers: "Should we feed a person who if God willed He would surely feed him? You this is just being in manifest error".

(Yaa Siin 36:47)

CHAPTER 6 : BE STRICT OR GIVE UP

If in something we are firm and insist because it is true, but the situation gets bad, do we need to just give in so that we can live in peace. The answer, what is the cause of the problem? Being assertive doesn't have to be a hard way. Is by giving in, will the soul be safe? Of course not.

We need to be clear, in any case what is the truth. And find the right way or solution in achieving that goal.

Example Ali and Ahmad are heading to Bethalahem, Ali suggests road A but is actually opposed by Ahmad who feels road B is best. Ali actually knows that road A is safer and takes less time. Why does Ali just give in? Calm down and try to find a way how he can speak safely to Ahmad, accompanied by strong arguments and peaceful speech.

Example A wants to convey knowledge, and indeed we are knowledgeable, but if the way is bad. He was considered uneducated, yet disrespected. Therefore the important thing is HIS WAY. A good way, people will respect. Usually people who are respected, have a good relationship with God.

By what way can we achieve a good relationship with God? By following the truth, patience, contentment, sincerity, trust and love.

CHAPTER 5 : DEALING WITH LESS WISE THINGS

Among us, many Good People are involved in some of the problems. This is because there are people who are not smart enough to comment harshly. Therefore Good People who see that cannot accept falsehood, stupidity, injustice. They did not stay silent. Then hastily responded to the argument also harshly. Anger against Anger, Violence against violence. Destroyed, the fire of contention became great. There is no solution, because their ways are the same.

Pay attention. First, will the comment 'That person' be misleading? If not to lead people astray, Silence is better. People who are not smart who want to learn, we can guide them. But people who think they are clever, yet selfish, replying to their comments only involve themselves in problems, sparking arguments, unnecessary enmity, revenge and so on. Talking with a wise enemy is better than arguing with a less wise person.

Second, when reading comments, you should get out of the problem box (position yourself as an observer, not a person involved) and if you are able to make the problem better, please give your opinion. However, let us speak with peace, calmness and good words. When speaking, don't be the person who always wants to win. But to find peace, agreement and uphold truth and justice. Behave

CHAPTER 5 : WHEN TO TALK

First think and say something if you are able to make something improve based on knowledge and correct arguments. Not a guess or a guess. If you don't make things improve. Silence is better. If you don't have knowledge, just shut up. Worry when expressing opinions based on guesses and guesses, not clear arguments, causing others to go astray. We have to be responsible.

The words of the Messenger of Allah "I guarantee with a palace on the edge of heaven for those who abandon debate even if it is true, I guarantee with a palace in the middle of heaven for those who abandon lies even if they are joking, and I guarantee with a highest palace for people who improve their morals" [HR Abu Dawud, authenticated by albani]

(Regrets) And we used to always take part in talking about wrong things, together with the people who talk about them; (Al-Muddathir: 45)

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"Never judge someone from other people's opinions. Every time I judge another person, I reveal an unhealed part of myself."

"It's easy to judge other people's mistakes, it's hard to recognize our own mistakes."

"For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."

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CHAPTER 5 : LIFE TESTS

You should know, in life no human being is free from trials and tests. Our job is to prepare ourselves to face it. People who are more prepared to face bad situations, fall more gracefully than people who do not expect trials to befall them.

At first, we may feel sad, or protest, why me? But every test that comes, is to improve our identity and make us more mature. As dark as the days of rain, storms and lightning, God is preparing us for a brighter, brighter tomorrow.

Whatever happens, think positively, all destiny that happens has already been written. Therefore, Surrender to God, be content with what happens. At a time like this, focus on dominating good attitudes and noble personalities in our lives. No one is free from trials, trials come to test faith. Therefore FOCUS on becoming a person with better faith.

Find a way to break through the problem, and don't sit and enjoy the pain of falling, the sadness of the heart, why me? Because it is the door of disbelief. Step back (take yourself out of the problem and see it from the counselor's point of view) and find a way out. Be your own hero. The world improves with the existence of many people who are able to find a way out of problems in a noble way.

DIFFICULT THINGS BECOME SIMPLE

Difficult things become easy, how? Sometimes something becomes difficult, because of the fear of facing it, it hasn't even started but has been afraid to try or is on the way, suddenly difficulty comes, the road is hit by storm waves, lightning, typhoon feels very painful.

Therefore, if you have to go through something difficult there is no way to avoid it 1) just face it, throw away all fear, find water to drink, find thorns to throw away. 2) face it with a sincere soul, this sincere person does not expect anything therefore he is not afraid to fail. 3) Be kind, because good thoughts attract good things. 4) be patient with good patience.

Problems come to be solved and lessons learned. Victory, determined by how quickly you act to overcome it. But most people like to stay in a problem without looking for a solution, sad and confused, therefore their life is difficult. Don't stay in trouble.

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"You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice." - Bob Marley

"It's impossible to improve yourself when you see yourself as a victim in a problem. Forget living without pain, without struggle, and without difficulty. That doesn't exist. Find the strength to fight it all."

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CHAPTER 5: JUDGING ATTITUDE

Don't judge by just looking at the surface. We cannot judge someone by only knowing the cover. For example, we say this to Pharaoh, Haman, Qarun very loudly, very loudly. Try to put yourself in their place with their great power, wealth, army. Our legs are not necessarily strong, right? Except those whose faith is strengthened by God.

Therefore we make these people a lesson. For personal improvement. Why do we have to be busy saying bad things about this and that. Pharaoh is dead in the grave. The words had no effect on him. But the loud and harsh bad words, only turned to his master. Only bad people say bad words.

CHAPTER 5 : HOW TO MOVE ON (LEAVE)

Leaving something behind may be a position, a house, a hobby, a partner. It's hard to leave something we love. But if you move on, more good can be achieved, please.

But the heart is not strong, still remembering only makes a step back. So you have to be STRONG and take big action. Remove your center of attention from that thing Physically, Visually, Mentally. Delete the pictures on the phone, unfollow, unfriend. Anything that makes you remember and reminisce completely avoid. Strictly.

Then towards a better future, dream of something beautiful in the future, so that the journey becomes interesting, make sure the road is up because God wants us to be better people.

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Every day is a new day, and you'll never be able to find happiness if you don't move on.-Carrie Underwood

Letting go helps us to live in a more peaceful state of mind and helps restore our balance.-Melody Beatti

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CHAPTER 5 : GIVING A LOAN

If someone comes to borrow for the purpose of greed, while his life is good, don't borrow. Tell him to be patient and climb level by level to his worldly ambitions. If you really want to help, make a written agreement, loan amount, loan period, payment method with two witnesses.

If the person who comes to borrow is indeed a person in trouble, lend with the intention of charity. If he is able to pay, that is a good thing, if he is not able to, it has already been halal. If someone comes to borrow for the purpose of the hereafter (jihad fisabilillah), give sincerely as an investment for your own hereafter.

CHAPTER 5 : FRIENDS AND ENEMIES

Enemies are just friends who haven't become. If he is hostile to us, while we are not hostile to him, that is not an Enemy. Usually, people who are hostile to us can become our most loyal friends, like Saidina Umar Al-Khattab before and after embracing Islam. It can be that the person we love, even love, becomes our strongest enemy. So don't hate too much or love too much.

Just live a simple, relaxed life, the important thing is not to make enemies. If friendship brings more good there is no need to be enemies. Maybe there is a bad feeling, we just distance ourselves so that we don't collide. The enemies of the believers are only the infidels and hypocrites who fight against them. In addition, consider brothers and sisters who do not understand each other.

We have friends, because we consider someone as a friend. We are not friends with everyone, but we say hello and get to know a lot of people.

To be a good friend, we must be a loving and caring person. God's help is usually easy for those whose hearts are full of love. He always prays for the good of others and is always willing to help.

Choose friends who are a blessing. With them we hear good words, advise each other with love, respect each other. The most important thing is to bring us closer to God.

CHAPTER 5 : DIFFERENCE IN OPINION

Watch the authoritative person when he speaks, the people who listen say he, he, right. Why doesn't he face the problem of dissent. Because people don't just talk. Always listen quietly. Most of the time he busy himself with useful things, seeking knowledge and so on.

And when he speaks only the important and necessary things, and when he utters the words they are very elegant. His words are orderly, polite, his voice clearly accompanied by knowledge and precise arguments. So who can argue with that anymore.

Try to respect other people's opinions, focus on the truth. And you should know that not everything you believe is true, unless you have strong proofs and arguments. Always try to find common ground, that is, consensus, and consensus. An authoritative person, he is able to make his opponent feel defeated by a wise way to avoid arguments.

CHAPTER 5 : CLOSE ALL THE DOORS OF EVILS

Satan was created to distinguish between the unbelievers and the believers. Then came whispers of evil to humans. Whoever eats the fruit of evil whispers from the devil, then he becomes a person who wrongs himself.

DEVIL'S DOORS

I found the female king and her people prostrated themselves to the sun by abandoning the worship of God, and Satan made their deeds (polytheism) attractive in their eyes, and prevented them from the (right) path; therefore they have no guidance, -

(An-Naml 27:24)

The sun symbolizes the generosity of sustenance, prosperity, wealth, pleasure, greatness and so on. They worship the sun i.e. they worship the material, for example the pursuit of wealth, power, name and rank. Doing worship, but only as a trade. For example, the dhuha prayer, the real intention is only to be blessed with sustenance.

Satan makes the act of associating God with the fruits of evil whispers and promises of the world such as... "If I am rich", "If I am powerful", "Recite this mantra for the benefits of such and such" and there are those who really worship the sun . Therefore, these people are first, indeed infidels to ALLAH, secondly they worship in a state of associating with ALLAH.

DEVIL'S DOORS

Therefore, close the doors of the devil from allowing the evil whispers to enter into human beings.

1) First protect yourself from being instigated by the devil by cultivating a sincere attitude and trust in God.

Verily, Satan does not have any influence on those who believe and who submit completely to their Lord. (Al-Nahl 16:99)

Therefore, when you read the Al-Quran, then you should first) ask God for protection from Satan's incitement to be stoned. 

(Al-Nahl 16:98)

2) Second make the purpose of this life and all work and worship only for the sake of God. If it is due to other things then he makes the devil and his lust as God.

Indeed, Satan's influence is only on those who make him their leader, and those who, because of his incitement, commit shirk to Allah.

(Al-Nahl 16:100)

3) Third, talk about the whispers of evil with old words, throw the fruits of the devil's thoughts far away, don't be easily incited.

Satan has dominated and influenced them, causing them to forget to remember Allah; they are Satan's tribe. Find out! That Satan's tribe is actually the losers. 

(Al-Mujaadalah 58:19)

4) Fourth, don't sit and think about prejudice, incitement or thoughts from the devil. And don't make friends with the satanic clans that are humans or jinn who talk about things of evil, destruction, abomination and insult. Leave them alone. Find good friends. A person's morals are influenced by the morals of his friends.

And when you see people talking in a way that insults or mocks Our verses, then leave them until they talk about something else; and if you are forgotten by Satan (and you sit with them), then do not sit with the unjust people again, after you remember (the prohibition).

(Al-An'am 6:68)

5) Fifth, use very good words when talking to other beings face to face or in written form. Because bad words evoke bad things. Message and advise each other with love.

And say (O Muhammad) to My servants (who believe), so that they speak with very good words; verily Satan is always inciting among them; Indeed Satan is a very real enemy for humans.

(Al-Israa' 17:53)

6) Sixth, pray to ALLAH for protection from Satan's incitement. And say: "O my Lord, I seek refuge in You from the incitement of the Satans. 

(Al-Mu'minuun 23:97)

 7) Seventh, if you see your friend is confused or possessed by the devil. So give him advice and instructions to remove him from the influence of the devil.

Say: "Should we call upon and worship something other than Allah, something that cannot benefit us and cannot harm us; and (should we) be turned backwards (becoming polytheists) after we have been guided and guided by Allah (with the religion of Islam), like a person who has been led astray by the Satans on earth (in a deserted place) in a state of confusion, while he has friends who invite him to the straight path (saying to him):

"Come with- same as us "Say: "Surely God's guidance is truly guidance, and we are commanded to surrender to God who preserves and governs the whole world".

(Al-An'am 6:71)

8) Eighth, Avoid these bad attitudes 1) Arrogance, arrogance, arrogance and self-pride 2) Greed and Gluttony, 3) Stinginess and Miserliness, 3) Love of position and power, 4) Lust and Worry, 5) Sadness 6) Long dreams 7) According to lust and pleasure.

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"Be careful who you trust, the devil was once an angel."

"Gossip is the Devil's radio." – George Harrison

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CHAPTER 5: BE STRICT OR GIVE UP

If in something we are firm and insist because it is true, but the situation gets bad, do we need to just give in so that we can live in peace. The answer, what is the cause of the problem? Being assertive doesn't have to be a hard way. Is by giving in, will the soul be safe? Of course not.

We need to be clear, in any case what is the truth. And find the right way or solution in achieving that goal.

Example Ali and Ahmad are heading to Bethalahem, Ali suggests road A but is actually opposed by Ahmad who feels road B is best. Ali actually knows that road A is safer and takes less time. Why does Ali just give in? Calm down and try to find a way how he can speak safely to Ahmad, accompanied by strong arguments and peaceful speech.

Example A wants to convey knowledge, and indeed we are knowledgeable, but if the way is bad. He was considered uneducated, yet disrespected. Therefore the important thing is HIS WAY. A good way, people will respect. Usually people who are respected, have a good relationship with God.

By what way can we achieve a good relationship with God? By following the truth, patience, contentment, sincerity, trust and love.

CHAPTER 5 : AVOID PUNISHMENT

Remember on the day of painful punishment, a hell full of torment, no life and no death in it, which only befalls the unbelievers, unjust and many sins. On that day there was no help. Therefore, the LAST CHANCE before we meet that day, let us all purify ourselves from sin and renew the faith (creed) that has become rusty.

We see the Doomsday far away, maybe it is very close. Therefore there is a Business that can save from painful punishment and get help from GOD and get a quick victory ie

·        Believe in ALLAH and His Messenger, ALLAH the Almighty God

·        Worship GOD with sincerity in obeying him

·        Upholding the religion of GOD with wealth and self

·        Feeding orphans, relatives and the poor on days of hunger

·        Spending property, paying zakat

·        Do not scold orphans and beggars

·        Order to BELIEVE

·        Order to be PATIENT

·        Order to LOVE

Refine each one, and plan how we can implement it. May Allah shower His mercy, forgive our sins, and protect us from the punishment of hell.

NOT ALL PEOPLE OR THINGS SHOULD

TREATED EQUALLY

Consider important people who are not important. Put yourself in confusion, feel cramped. Not everyone should be treated the same. Not everything is considered important. There are two types of people 1) People who bring blessings 2) People to learn from.

Most of the people we meet and most of the things we face should be ignored, considered irrelevant, not important, move on. Only those who remain surrounded by us, are taken care of by those who bring blessings. Their presence makes us better, life feels important, valuable, happy and faithful.

Why consider important people who do not share the same direction? Its presence is confusing, if we are not required to be removed, causing us to go from confident to insecure. Being busy with people like this reduces our ability to love or care about people or things that are more important, their presence brings goodness and brings blessings.

So FOCUS, choose what is important and what is not.

CHAPTER 4 : SUCCEED IN LIFE

WHY LATE SUCCESS?

How to improve personal character and Life quality. People take so much time to Succeed. What causes someone to be so slow to succeed?

-      First slow in starting something good.

-      Both of us think there will be time later. Delay.

-      The three articles are considered light or not very important

-      Fourth, he does not feel the danger of delaying something.

-      Fifth because of disciplinary problems

THE ARGUMENT THAT TIME IS IMPORTANT

Indeed, time is precious, passing moments cannot be bought back. So appreciate it. The only thing that does not have a reverse button and there is no remedy to make it Back is time. Appreciate everything.

For the sake of time! Verily the human being is in loss - Except for those who believe and do righteous deeds, and they also preach with truth and preach with patience.

(Al-'Asr 103:1-3)

LIFE DIRECTION PLAN

As early as possible a person finds the direction of his life's purpose. And make plans and take strategic action plans in achieving that goal, then he becomes a successful young person at an early age, quickly becoming an adult. However, the definition of success should be in the context of worshiping God and things that bring goodness to oneself, religion and the public.

Do you not know that everything in the heavens and the earth bow down to God and (among them) the sun and the moon, and the stars, and the mountains, and the trees, and the animals, and most of from humans? And there are many (among people) who deserve punishment (because of their disbelief and immorality); and (remember) whoever is humiliated by Allah, then he will not have anyone who can glorify him. Indeed, God still does what He planned.

(Al-Hajj 22:18)

The question is determining the direction of life?

1.   What is your purpose in life?

-      The purpose of my presence in the world is to perform worship and do good deeds for the sake of a brilliant afterlife. In addition to being a person who does not trouble others, a hand that gives and benefits the public.

2.   After this what do you plan for 5 years, 10 years, 20 years in the future?

-      5 years: Succeed in studies in a high class, deepening religious knowledge

-      10 years: Build an excellent career, Good self-development, Noble morals, and a stable life (have a car with a one million storage house). Memorize part of the Quran

-      20 years: Writing life experiences and the expertise I have to share with the general public may be an inspiration to the public and help overcome their problems. Istiqamah in Worship and charity.

3.   What are the career and professional plans?

-      Helping solve people's problems based on the advantages and privileges I have. For example, I am a doctor who wants to help solve community health problems. Educate and share knowledge.

4.   What are your interests and hobbies?

-      Gardening and looking at nature

5.   What kind of family do you want, and what do you want to do for them?

-      Happy. Have time to be with them. Help fulfill their dreams. Love them with all your attention. And express appreciation for how important they are in my life.

6.   What are your strengths, and what weaknesses do you list. And what are the ways to make your strengths super and fix your weaknesses?

-      Understanding the use of herbs, making them super: using that knowledge to help solve people's health problems.

-      How? by digging deeper into knowledge in the field of herbs, obtaining the necessary qualifications to become a professional in the field, then producing medicines that can solve community problems.

-    Likes to be alone, to improve: choosing people who are a blessing as a companion. 

7.   What kind of good character do you want to instill in yourself?

-  Patient, sincere, grateful servant, polite, peaceful and calm. Not easily angered.

8.   Spirituality?

-      Pray 5 times at the beginning of time

-      Read the Quran two surahs a day

-      Chanting, glorifying and glorifying morning and evening

-      Doing Tahajud and Dhuha prayers

9.   Financial plans in the future?

-      I know that money is important to guarantee the stability of life. As soon as possible I want to achieve the status of 'Money Freedom'. Therefore, I can devote the available time to more important things.

-      Money Freedom is a person who is free from all debts, has passive income, that is stable financial income. Have the freedom to determine your own life and space.

-      I will get a job related to interest. It starts with being an excellent student. Get a good position in your career to gain experience with a good salary. Saving part of the salary. After 5 years. I will open my own company using the savings. The first 2 years are a stable time. After that I will put a trusted person in charge while monitoring.

-      Therefore, I have a stable income, more time alone at the same time can be used to gain knowledge, think about how to be better in life in this world and the hereafter.

How do you manage your money? Examples of Management?

40%	Living expenses, including bills, kitchen money
5%	Self-esteem, Long-term. Savings for traveling, umrah, buying assets.
5%	Spending on loved ones as appreciation
5%	Self-development (books, lectures, courses)
5%	Charity Infak
2.5%	Zakat
2.5%	Hobby
35%	Savings

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"You say that money is not everything, I want to see you live without it." - Daniel Johns 

"A lot of money does not guarantee happiness. Especially if you don't have money." 

"Money is a good servant, but also a bad master." 

"A true lover is not impressed by your wealth because he knows true love is priceless." 

"Don't wait for the right time to do something, because the time will never be right for those who wait."

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CHAPTER 4 : SADNESS

Life is not always good, sometimes the weather changes. Being hit by storm waves, typhoons, this can change a person from a person of authority, to sad and confused. Sometimes the impact of the waves, sinks us to the bottom of the deepest ocean, plus the darkness of the night. Until no way out was found, no one could see because of the darkness of the night.

People who have sunk in the bottom, usually suffocation. Some even lost their way. Some become coral, hearts become hard as stone. Some turn into monsters, get angry and get up in anger at all the fate that befalls them, Why Me?.

Therefore the best way is to be quiet, step back for a while, don't struggle and remember the blessings of your God all this time, He has given you a good life, and now it's still good just being tested. Be thankful. Sometimes the prosperity of life neglects, until we forget to thank God. Be patient with good patience.

And we are not subjected to any test except to mature us. And it is not a test that is beyond the limits of a person's ability, you are able to face it, but a way out has not been found. Stop being sad and don't tell people. Because it only makes things worse. Look for a way out and ask God for guidance.

Leave the matter to God, and mention the name of God a lot, may you be victorious. Sometimes we are overcome by trials, sadness, so that we return to God. When people feel perfect they forget. And in the Al-Quran it is mentioned, how good it would be when they were afflicted with that punishment, they pleaded and prayed to God with humility.

DON'T BE SORRY

In fact, whoever submits himself to God (obeying His commands) while he is also trying to do good deeds, then he will get his reward from his Lord and there will be no anxiety (from the occurrence of bad events) against them, and they will not grieve.

(Al-Baqarah 2:112)

Those who spend their wealth in the way (religion) of God, then they do not accompany what they spend with the word of raising (the gift), nor offend or hurt (the party to whom it is given), they will have a reward with their Lord , and there is no fear (from the occurrence of bad events) for them, and they will not grieve.

(Al-Baqarah 2:262)

Indeed, those who believe and do righteous deeds, and perform prayers and give zakat, they will have a reward with their Lord, and there will be no fear (of something bad happening) against them, and they will not grieve.

(Al-Baqarah 2:277)

Verily, the believers, and the Jews, and the Sabians, and the Christians - whoever among them believes in Allah (and all His Messengers including the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him) and (believes in) the Last Day and do righteous deeds, then there will be no anxiety (from the occurrence of bad events) against them, and they will not grieve.

(Al-Ma'idah 5:69)

Find out! Verily, the guardians of God, there is no fear (of anything bad) for them, and they will not grieve.

(Jonah 10:62)

Indeed We know that what they say will cause you (O Muhammad) grief; (then do not grieve) because in fact they are not lying to you, but the wrongdoers deny the verses of God's revelations (due to their stubbornness alone).

(Al-An'am 6:33)

O children of Adam! If messengers come to you from among you who narrate to you My verses (orders), then whoever is pious and improves his deeds, there will be no fear (of bad things happening) to them, and they will not grieve. .

(Al-A'raaf 7:35)

And be patient (O Muhammad against the actions and antics of the disbelieving group); and there is no success in your patience except by (asking for help from) God; and don't be saddened by their stubbornness, and don't be saddened by their deceit.

(Al-Nahl 16:127)

Indeed, those who confirm their belief by saying: "Our Lord is Allah", then they remain firm on the right path, angels will descend to them from time to time (by inspiring): "Do not worry (from the occurrence of events that is not good for you) and do not grieve, and accept the good news that you will have the paradise that was promised to you.

(Fussilat 41:30)