Manners/ Conducts comes from the Arabic word ادب which means good behavior and deeds, decency, morality, politeness, decency, and humanity. Ethics comes from the word أَخْلاَقٌ which is the plural of the word خُلُقٌ meaning habit, conduct, behavior, and behavior, custom, and even it also means religion itself.
MANNERS TO GOD
Adab towards God is to believe in God without associating Him. Understanding the name, nature and actions of God without needing to know His Essence; do not equate Him with creatures; practicing his religion in the right way as taught by his Messenger; leave all prohibitions and always seek His guidance and forgiveness. You should always be grateful, satisfied, kind and completely surrender to God.
MANNERS TO THE QURAN
Should touch in a pure state of hands and body parts, afdal berwuduk. Covering the private parts. Reading diligently. Begin by asking for protection from the devil and bismillahirrahmanirahim. You can add a heart-enlightening prayer. Understand the meaning. Allow all the sentences. Take lessons and knowledge from him and put them into practice. When you hear people reading the Quran, be quiet. Do not point your feet towards the Quran. And after reading put it in a high place.
MANNERS TO THE APOSTLE
Adab towards the Prophet Muhammad SAW is to truly understand his metaphysical position and his high moral status, love him more than ourselves, follow the sunnah and honor the members of the Prophet SAW's family properly, in addition to friends and Islamic scholars.
MANNERS TO LEADERS
Etiquette towards leaders is to have a good view of them and their families, support good policies and advise sincerely, do not support in matters contrary to religion, injustice and what is against the law.
MANNERS TO THE COUNTRY
Etiquette towards the country is to properly understand history, defend its integrity and sovereignty and in the larger interest not to oppress or threaten others. Loving the country and ready to defend and defend the country with the leaders.
DRESS MANNERS
Wear simple clothes and cover the entire aurat. Without fragrances or jewelry that attracts attention for women.
PRAYER MANNERS
Working Sincerely, Perfecting Wudu. Dress Clean and cover your private parts. Immediately perform the prayer after the call to prayer. Congregational prayer in the mosque is better. Close the row. Kusyu' in prayer. Perfecting the reading and the pillars of prayer. Wirid and pray after prayer.
FASTING MANNERS
According to Sheikh Habib Abdullah bin Alwi al-Haddad,
"A person who fasts has manners whose fasting is not perfect except with the presence of those manners. The most important of them is to guard his tongue from lying and swearing and talking about things that are not necessary for him. He guards his eyes and ears from listening and looking at anything which is not halal for him as well as something that is considered excessive.
TOILET MANNERS
Read a prayer before going to the toilet.
From Anas bin Malik, he said,
"The Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, when he entered the toilet, he said: Allahumma inni a'udzu bika minal khubutsi wal khobaits (O Allah, I seek refuge in You from male and female devils)
EATING ETIQUETTE
We are forbidden to criticize food. If we really don't like the food, then we should leave it instead of eating it but criticizing it.
From Abu Hurairah Radiyallahu anhu:
"The Messenger of Allah sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam never criticized food, when he sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam had an appetite, (liked the food that had been served) he ate it, while if he did not like it (had no appetite), then he left it."
When one of you wants to eat, then say: 'Bismillaah', and if he forgets to say Bismillaah at the beginning of eating, then he should say: 'Bismillaah awwaalahu wa aakhirahu' (by mentioning the Name of Allah at the beginning and at the end)." (Sahih: Narrated by Abu Dawud (no. 3767), Ahmad (VI/143)
MUZAKARAH ETIQUETTE
Discussion centered on the truth, without doubt. Delivered in a polite, mannered and civilized manner, making it easier to be accepted by the public. Demanding every muzakarah member to be humble and away from all arrogance and showing off. An attitude of openness to differences of opinion, not being fanatical or fanatical about one's own views feels the most true. be open to the possibility that something we believe is not true, respect each other and love each other. And Adil should not be the only dominant party to speak up, give opportunities and encourage the weak, remain silent to express their views
SLEEP MANNERS
First, do not sleep before Isha prayer. We should do Isha prayer first before going to sleep and not chat after Isha.
From Abu Barzah Radhiyallahu anhu:.
"That the Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, hated sleeping the night before (Isha' prayer) and talking (unhelpful) after it."
(HR. Al-Bukhari no. 568 and Muslim no. 647 (235
Second, take ablution before going to bed. People who perform ablution before going to sleep will get protection from angels in their sleep.
"When you want to go to bed (sleep), then perform ablution first as you perform ablution to pray."
[HR. Al-Bukhari no. 247 and Muslim no. 2710]
Third, read a prayer before going to bed. As for some of the prayers recited are the verses of the Quran as taught by the Prophet. From 'Aishah, she, may God be pleased with her, said,
"The Prophet sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam when he was in bed every night, he put his palms together and then both palms were blown and recited 'Qul huwallahu ahad' (Surat Al Ikhlash), 'Qul a'udzu birobbil falaq' (Surat Al Ikhlash)Al-Falaq) and 'Qul a'udzu birobbin naas' (the letter of An Naas). Then he rubbed the palms of his hands on the parts of the body that could be reached, starting from the head, face, and front of the body. He did that three times."
(HR. Bukhari no. 5017).
PILGRIMAGE / VISIT ETIQUETTE
Say hello. A friendly handshake and a smile. Come with good intentions to connect or come to please people. If you get an invitation, fulfill the invitation. Messenger, "Whoever is invited, come!"
(HR. Abu Dawud and Ahmad)
Do not enter before permission. Even if the house is our closest relative. We should always ask for permission before entering someone's house. And pay attention to the time limit, if it takes too long we are worried about burdening the host.
"O you who believe, do not enter the houses of the Prophet unless you are allowed to eat without waiting for the time to cook the food! However, if you are invited, come in! And when you finish eating, you go out without prolonging the conversation! Surely such a thing will disturb the Prophet. Then, the Prophet was ashamed of you to tell you to leave. And God is not ashamed to explain the truth." (Qs. Al Azab: 53)
MANNERS OF DEMANDING KNOWLEDGE
Intend that all the knowledge you will learn is only for the sake of Allah. When seeking knowledge, we should earnestly avoid feeling lazy and easily tired, by using all the time and space to gain knowledge and review. Stay away from careless things.
There are many knowledgeable people who actually become arrogant, they should remain humble people. You should respect teachers, because they are people who sacrifice themselves to educate. Choose friends who bring blessings. Do not argue and argue with teachers or friends, but ask questions to increase understanding.
Be silent when the teacher or ustadz explains and give full attention. Memorize the knowledge so that it is easier to remember. Practicing the knowledge he learned. After practicing and finding the benefits and benefits, then spread the goodness of the knowledge, so that it benefits others.
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"A mother's heart is very deep and at the bottom of her deepest heart, you will always findsorry door.” - Honoré de Balzac
"Maybe mom calls more often to ask how I'm doing every day, but do I know that it's actually dad who reminds mom to call me?" -Maman Suherman
"You know, a father might leave. However, every Mother will continue to accompany." - Asma Nadia
"For me, a mother is everything, the path of sustenance is opened by our devotion to our parents, what makes a mother's heart happy is not wealth, but the morals of a noble child." - Susi Pudjiastuti
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MANNERS TO BOTH PARENTS
The manners of a child to their parents
1- He should listen and obey his parents in non-religious matters.
2- He should not walk in front of his parents, if he has to bow down.
3- Let him not raise his voice higher than the two
4- He should be humble and humble to both of them.
5- Don't argue and sulk in front of both of them.
6- Let him respond to the call of both and fulfill their requests in good ways. Obey all orders
CONVERSATION ETIQUETTE
Speak only good things. Said the truth. Not reproaching his brother. Be a good listener and don't interrupt your brother's words "When you are sitting talking to others, you should listen more than you speak. Learn to be a good listener as you learn to be a good speaker. Do not interrupt the conversation of others." (Hasan Al Basri Al-Muntaqa p. 72). No Arguing. The Prophet's words: I guarantee a palace around heaven for anyone who abandons debate even if he is in the right. And in the middle of heaven for a person who abandons lies even in joking and in the highest part of heaven for those whose morals are praiseworthy." (HR. Abu Dawud, in his sunan, no 4167
PRAYING MANNERS
- Believe in God's promise that the prayer is answered. Just slow or fast
- Choose the best time to pray.
- Really feel the need of God.
- Facing the Qibla.
- Pray in a holy state. Better if ablution
- Raise your hands while praying.
- Precede with repentance and forgiveness, like the prayer of Prophet Yunus 'alaihis salam who acknowledged his injustice first: LAA ILAAHA ILLAA ANTA SUBHAANAKA INNII KUNTU MINAZH ZHAALIMIIN (Meaning: There is no deity worthy of worship except You, Most Holy You, indeed I am one of the wrongdoers ).
- Ask with great hope and fear, humbly and slowly. And don't be arrogant and go overboard.
- Tawassul with Asma Allah.
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"Prayer gives strength to the weak, makes the unbelieving to believe and gives courage to the fearful." -Aristotle
"I really believe in the power of prayer." "Prayer is man's greatest strength!" -W. Clement Stone
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PROOFS OF PRAYER IN THE QURAN AND HADITH
Pray to Me and I will grant your prayer. Indeed, those who are arrogant and neglect to worship and pray to Me, will enter Jahannam in a state of humiliation.
(Ghafir: 60)
And when My servants ask you about Me then (tell them): Verily I (Allah) am always near (to them); I grant the request of the person who prays when he prays to Me. So let them respond to my call (by obeying my command) and let them believe in me so that they become good and right.
(Al Baqarah 186)
Or who accepts the prayer of the afflicted when he prays to Him and who removes hardship, and makes you successors (of the peoples who have passed) to inhabit and rule the earth? Are there any other gods with Allah? Very few of you remember (God's favor).
(No. 62)
(Remember) when you asked your Lord for help, then He granted your request (with His words): Verily I will help you with a thousand (army) of angels who come in succession.
(Al Anfal 9)
And He accepts the supplications of those who believe and do righteous deeds and He increases them from His bounties (in addition to what they ask for) and (on the contrary) those who disbelieve, a severe punishment is prepared for them.
(Ash Shura 26)
Oh my God, give me religious knowledge and connect me with righteous people;
(Asy Shuaraa 83)
Only You do we worship, and only You do we ask for help.
(Surah Al-Fatihah: 5)
Pray to your Lord humbly and (with a voice) slowly. Indeed, Allah does not like those who transgress the limits.
(Al-A'raaf 7:55)
And do not do mischief on earth after God has prepared everything that brings good to it, and pray to Him with a feeling of worry (in case it is not accepted) and also with a feeling of too much hope (so that it will be accepted). Indeed, God's mercy is close to those who improve their deeds.
(Al-A'raaf 7:56)
And Allah has good (glorious) names, so call (and pray) to Him by mentioning those names, and banish those who turn away from the truth while using His names. They will get feedback on what they have done.
(Al-A'raaf 7:180)
And pray (O Muhammad by saying): "O my Lord, grant forgiveness and bestow mercy, and indeed You alone are the best Giver of mercy!"
(Al-Mu'minun 23:118)
From Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu 'anhu, the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu 'alaihiwa sallam said, "Pray to Allah in a state of certainty that it will be answered, and know that Allah does not answer prayers from a negligent heart." (HR. Tirmidhi, no. 3479. Shaykh Al-Albani says that this hadith is hasan.)
And We oblige man to do good to both his parents; His mother conceived him with great pain and gave birth to him with great pain. While the period of pregnancy and the period of weaning is within thirty months. After he grew up to the age of perfect strength and reached the age of forty years, he prayed saying: "O my God, inspire me to be grateful for your favors that you have bestowed on me and my parents, and so that I continue to do good deeds righteous that You are satisfied; and make the qualities of goodness seep into the souls of my descendants. Indeed, I repent to you, and indeed I am from the Muslims (who submit to you)".
(Al-Ahqaaf 46:15)
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