If in something we are firm and insist because it is true, but the situation gets bad, do we need to just give in so that we can live in peace. The answer, what is the cause of the problem? Being assertive doesn't have to be a hard way. Is by giving in, will the soul be safe? Of course not.
We need to be clear, in any case what is the truth. And find the right way or solution in achieving that goal.
Example Ali and Ahmad are heading to Bethalahem, Ali suggests road A but is actually opposed by Ahmad who feels road B is best. Ali actually knows that road A is safer and takes less time. Why does Ali just give in? Calm down and try to find a way how he can speak safely to Ahmad, accompanied by strong arguments and peaceful speech.
Example A wants to convey knowledge, and indeed we are knowledgeable, but if the way is bad. He was considered uneducated, yet disrespected. Therefore the important thing is HIS WAY. A good way, people will respect. Usually people who are respected, have a good relationship with God.
By what way can we achieve a good relationship with God? By following the truth, patience, contentment, sincerity, trust and love.
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