Patience is refraining from anger over something bad that happens. Such as pain, calamity, disturbances, difficulties, being oppressed and so on. Patient attitude, they are not in a hurry, calm and not pushy. The attitude of patient people is able to restrain the heart from releasing (sadness, anger) and try to calm down.
There are 3 levels. At first, holding back anger, sadness, confusion over what happened. In the middle, he felt stronger, less burdened and more satisfied. In the end, he was satisfied and surrendered to God, no longer struggling, and found ways to resolve or make peace. Tests come to make us more mature.
Indeed, PATIENCE is among the most powerful helpers of believers. So that if there are 100 patient people they will be able to defeat 200 infidel enemies. Thalut's chosen army had defeated Jalut, consisting of patient people, refraining from drinking water from the river, and their number was very small, but they were able to win.
A characteristic of Sabar people, when misfortune strikes them, they say Innalillahiwainnailaihirojiun. And a patient person is categorized as a person who does good deeds and a leader who can be trusted in giving guidance (because his decisions and actions are not rushed)
The benefits obtained by those who are patient:
1) Obtaining forgiveness 2) Obtaining a great reward and being perfected with unlimited reward 3) Bestowed with good qualities 4) They are people whom God loves 5) Among the people of heaven, are those who are patient.
HOW TO FACE A BAD SITUATION?
Therefore we need to develop a personality, what kind of attitude when faced with a bad situation:
1) We should be calm, only a peaceful, contented, sincere soul can achieve real peace.
2) Thinking positively, that is, everything that happens has already been written. Therefore Redha with destiny is the best path.
3) He should be silent, from complaining and telling people about the fate that befell him. This is because, this attitude only attracts more darkness.
4) He should remember that all this time, God's blessings are abundant on him, be grateful. And the situation is still good. Just given a little test. Maybe all this time we have forgotten to be grateful to those who give us sustenance. Be thankful
5) Be patient with good patience. Patience is part of faith. Maybe by being patient, we can draw closer to God.
6) Pray to God humbly asking for forgiveness and guidance, goodness and help from Him.
7) Find the cause of the problem, and find the remedy. Determine the direction and take the necessary action, the way out.
8) Relying and surrendering completely to God.
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