An authoritative person is a person who appears physically (externally) as well as in his soul to be a good person, his aura radiates. These are people who are clean spiritually and internally as well as externally.
Normally, most people look good on the outside, their behavior is good, their words are polite and orderly. But to find a person who is clean and good on the outside and inside is like finding a jewel in the deep ocean.
But to achieve total freedom from the mire of sin, we must free our hearts from inner sins, vices of the soul, all worries, disbelief and so on. Repentance from feelings of pride, self-pride, feeling better, bad thoughts, despising and insulting people secretly, envy, revenge and transgression of the heart mixed with sin
Ways, Educate the heart and cleanse it from inner sins
1) When you feel better. Be humble. Feeling that everyone is better than him. And if found good in him. Say "all goodness belongs to Allah".
2) Feeling pity and sympathy for the weak. If I were in his place, I wouldn't necessarily be able to face him. May God make things easier for him.
3) Allow truth. What is read and heard is true, indeed it is found in the Al-Quran.
4) Declaring Justice, that is putting things in their place.
5) Be kind. Ya Allah keep me away from criticizing and insulting my brother. When the heart ticks to criticize good people "Let me not insult those who do good".
6) Restrain anger. Shut up.
7) Be generous. Truly this is God's treasure. To God it is returned.
8) Remembering God, and worshiping Him. When you see God's greatness, say Subhanallah, Masyaallah. Praise, Remembrance and Praise to Allah
9) And become a place to build an authoritative personality by always advising yourself to be better.
10) Pray with humility and hope in God.
- For friends, "Oh God, make the people who are with me, people who believe, pious, love each other. And make us people who forgive each other and help each other in goodness, and remind us of the Hereafter".
- Look at people who are weak and needy, "May God provide sustenance for him".
- See bad things "O Allah, I seek refuge in you from such things"
- The path or whisper of the devil "Oh God, I seek refuge in you from the stoned devil".
- When something bad happens, be patient. Ya Allah, make me a faithful, pious and pious servant.
- Feeling the calamity that befell me as if I could not bear it any longer, "Oh God, the favors and graces that you have bestowed on me all this time are abundant, therefore make me among your grateful and patient servants. Make me a person who is sincere and content with the provisions of my Lord. And show me a way out that is easy and pleasing to You".
11) Special people, or being at a higher level or referring to an authoritative person. His heart is programmed for certain things only. Empty or Silent from all things, except His Remembrance every time to God.
If he is faced with something, then he allows his heart to speak words to advise him towards goodness or teach him knowledge.
HOW TO CLEAN THE HEART FROM THE QURAN
this is the way to educate the heart, even this way is recorded in Al Quran. When the breath is perfected, evil and good whispers are brought. Lucky is the person who chooses a good whisper and Lucky is also the person who purifies the heart.
Therefore, the example of the heart saying "You just know what level I am", fight back against that whisper, by advising yourself "I am from the earth, I was born with nothing, this is all God's, it is better to obey God, indeed God does not like arrogant people".
For the sake of man and the One who completes his events (with equipment suitable for his condition); (7) And inspires him (to know) the path that leads him to evil, and that leads him to piety; (8) Indeed, successful is the person who makes himself - who is ready clean - becoming more and more clean, (9) And truly empty is the person who makes himself - who is already clean - his cleanliness decreases and sinks (due to the impurity of immorality).
(Ash-Shams 91:10)
SILENT / DEDICATED / FOCUS SCIENCE:
Sit in front of a table or place. Prepare paper, pencil, balm or perfume, eraser or coins, as well as a stopwatch (you can use a mobile phone). Start with Bismillahirrahmanirahim.
1) SEE SOMETHING
Look at something the size of a coin placed on the table and look at it for 2 minutes. Close all other senses, do not hear, smell, think and cross or whisper.
2) FEEL SOMETHING
Feel a surface like sandpaper, with your finger for 2 minutes. Close all other senses eyes closed, do not hear, do not smell close the mind and crossing nor the whisper of the heart.
3) LISTEN TO SOUNDS
Focus on one sound only. Examples of fan noise. Ignore other sounds around. Close all other senses, close your eyes, don't smell, close your mind and cross or even whisper your heart.
4) SMELL OF SOMETHING
Focus The smell of something, for example the smell of balm. Close all other senses eyes closed, do not hear, do not smell close the mind and crossing nor the whisper of the heart.
5) SAY THE NAME OF GOD
Say the name of Allah for 2 minutes. Close all other senses eyes closed, do not hear, do not smell close the mind and crossing nor the whisper of the heart.
6) WRITING
Choose a word or a sentence. Write repeatedly for 2 minutes in a state of non-thinking, other senses closed, except the eyes to see and the fingers to move to write.
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"If silence is wise, do it! But when wisdom is trampled upon, speak up so that they remain silent."
"When you say it, it will hurt other people's hearts. It's better if you stay silent."
"It is better to smile and be quiet as if everything is fine, than to be angry and cry, and then many people have to ask why."
"Silence is better than saying hurtful words"
"Silence is golden, Silence is the sharpest weapon, Great people use silence to subdue their opponents"
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- August 24, 2022
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